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Rick Lewis's avatar

This is brings up an interesting thing I've been struggling with myself. While I totally resonate with the idea we shouldn't be swayed by the opinion of others or be desperate for validation regarding the direction we're thinking of going, we're also tribal creatures, and relationships are at the heart of what makes life fulfilling, and our contributions meaningful. My thinking lately is that there is a spot in between caring and not caring what others think that is somewhat ambiguous and not easy to hold in mind simultaneously, but that's feels like the current challenge for me personally. Thanks for sharing your experience with this.

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Erin Rupp's avatar

"My main regret is seeking validation from other people." This speaks to me on many levels! Thank you for your vulnerability here.

"These days, I look to the future and try to live my life in a way that in a few years, I don’t look back and think, what if I started 5 years ago?" What a powerful perspective on life.

You learned so much from this experience, much more than any bootcamp could have taught you. Thank you for sharing your beautifully crafted story!

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